Relationships, sex and future decisions.

Take time to know someone

• Watch how they handle disappointment, boundaries and responsibility.
• Keep your friendships, education, work and goals.
• Do not ignore pressure, jealousy, secrecy or controlling behaviour.
• A baby does not fix an unstable relationship.

Before sex

1. Make sure both people freely consent and can change their mind.
2. Discuss condoms, contraception and STI testing before the moment.
3. Avoid decisions while intoxicated or under pressure.
4. Use confidential NHS sexual-health services for accurate advice.

Before planning a baby

Talk honestly about housing, income, childcare, work, family support, faith and values, parenting expectations and what happens if the relationship ends.